So people amuse me, they really do. Maybe that’s why I majored in Psych. Maybe that’s why I wandered around all the different groups of people in High School. I had a best friend, love ya Meghan, and we both wandered around and knew a lot of different people. I’m still like that today. I like talking with a variety of people. I have a good/best friend here, love ya JoAnna, but we both also socialize with a bunch of other people. Everyone brings different things to the table, it makes conversation fun and you always get to learn different things, whether about yourself or the other person. It’s awesome for personal growth and to help my ability to see things from all directions.
I love that about me, I’m able to see things in many different lights. But it also makes things difficult. There are a lot of people out there that can’t see things from different perspectives and it just causes long drawn out arguments. My Dad and I would go round and round and round about things… we still do :0). It’s hard to bring a perspective to someone and expect them not to think it’s what you think/believe. Trying to get someone to look at something differently is a lot harder then you think it would be and causes a lot of excess “drama” that seems like it could’ve easily been avoided…. or at least to me it does.
Anyways, I don’t know where I’m going with this, except that people really do amuse me, all the different personalities are amazing and makes for a very interesting world.
Like the other day I tried to bring a friend’s attention to something and it was blown way out of proportion. I’m still a bit confused as to why it went the way it did. But that’s life and that’s people, you never know how someone is going to react to something. And with the internet world I really can’t see where communication is going. Things in writing just don’t come off the same as if you were saying it, some people are just more sensitive and on edge then others, while some never read into anything.
It all goes back to different personalities. Do we tip-toe around people? Do we put ourselves out there as who we are and others can take us or leave us? Do we change who we are for every different personality we meet? Or do we learn from our mistakes, grow as person and adjust what we need to to fit that situation?
I think I’m the latter. I always believe I can grow as person. Every day brings new experiences, new ideas, new moments….. something I can always learn from! I don’t believe in regrets, just mistakes and I’ve made plenty but I’m also who I am because of them and I like that. And each day I continue to make mistakes and I continue to grow, which is awesome :0). With being able to see different perspecitves and being a “wanderer” I think I’ve gained the capability to adjust little things here or there to fit certain situations. Which has allowed me to experience many different things in life and I’m greatful for that!
I’m thankful for my past, present and looking forward to my future. Life is an interesting and amusing thing and I can’t wait to see what I learn about myself today :0)!!
- and for those of you who thought I was never serious about things, well there ya go!! An in depth thought from me :0)